Lily PolenchukOne of the best parts of university life is the social aspect. You’re surrounded by thousands of strangers and endless possibilities to meet people. But where do you even start? Whether you already have a steady friend group or know absolutely no one, it can be intimidating to put yourself out there. But broadening your social network is an essential part of the university experience. It’s all about finding a place where you feel comfortable enough to talk to people — here are five of my recommendations.
1. Chat with your classmates
Bear with me — I know this one may seem obvious, but don’t underestimate the potential that exists in every classroom. If you took a good look around at your class, you could probably pick out at least a few people you wouldn’t mind having a chat with. Or you can at least bond over the less glamorous parts of the course. Try striking up a conversation before or after class with someone. Talk about the course topics or ask about something they said in class. Your class-related conversations can naturally branch into friendlier territories. Plus, it gives you someone to sit with in class throughout the term. If you want to extend the friendship beyond the classroom, the key is to make sure to see them often after your shared course ends. A complete change in schedules can kill a budding friendship, so put in the effort to make plans regularly.
2. Get involved with student groups
Another obvious one, but it works too well to go unmentioned. Join clubs that either relate to topics you feel strongly about, or are centered around friendship and networking. If a club is both of those things, even better! Your passion for the topic will keep you engaged in club activities, and you’ll bond with your clubmates over shared interests. Some student groups have a specific focus on building connections — networking clubs, Greek organizations, and Friends Across Campus will lead you to people you’d have never met otherwise. Some student groups have volunteer opportunities and fundraise for particular causes. Don’t be afraid to take on a larger role. The most important part of joining a student group is consistently staying involved. Attend meetings and show up to events — or even volunteer to help run them!
3. Go to events
Not quite ready to commit to a club? There are still many public events you can attend without any larger commitment. Something is always happening, be it hosted by the university, a faculty association, or another group. You could support a fundraising event, go to a workshop, or attend a presentation — the options are endless. These events are always engaging and unique, and there’s often a promise of free food, so you can grab a bite while you socialize. Just keep an eye out for posters on bulletin boards, social media posts, or even newsletters you can sign up for.
4. Register in activities and programs
The University of Alberta has many facilities that are home to both casual and more advanced extracurricular programs. Students and staff pay reduced fees when registering, which makes these classes and events all the more accessible. If you’re late in registering, don’t fret! Many of the classes offer drop-in options, as long as there is space available. On the Activity Registration website, you can explore all the options offered. There’s a wide range of activities — from martial arts to pilates, board games to paint nights, there’s something for everyone. Pick something that sounds fun or that will push you, and get to know the other people there! Something drew both you and them to that specific activity. Find out their reason, and what else they do with their time — let the conversation flow from there!
5. Just hangout on campus
The truth is, there is no one place on campus that is the perfect social hub for everyone. The best friendships often come from random encounters. Approach that one person you always pass in the hall, or say hi to someone in the Student Union Building (SUB) food court. The only thing you need to do to meet people is have an open demeanour. It may be tempting to wait until someone approaches you first, but the only sure-fire way to meet people is to initiate the conversations yourself. Today could be the day you take the plunge and introduce yourself to your future best friend. You’ll meet the best people entirely by chance!
